Create Your Own Destiny, Here’s How

You can have your perfect life.

Create your own destiny and start with your own idea of your perfect life, including all of the things you want right now. If that includes a better fitness routine, weight loss, better health, career adjustments or just creating your best all around self, here’s some good news! Even if your to-do list on yourself is long, small changes can make a big difference. With just a little know-how and a lot of inspiration you can make yourself better one step at a time. You don’t need to shoot for perfection, but rather strive for mini make-overs in all of the aspects of your life that you want to change. Here’s how to get started:

Take it in Stride – The truth about creating your own destiny is that you are, and have always been, in control of your own life. If you are ready to create a better life for yourself, the first thing you’ll need to do is grab the reins and start making decisions, and commitments that get you closer to where you want to be. Transform you life one day at a time, one week at a time, one step at a time and in time, you’ll be able to look back at each step from the new place you are, that you have always wanted.

It Comes from Within – There is not a single person that can burn your calories for you. You have to get to the gym, create a support system and take every step on that treadmill yourself. You have to lift the weights and make healthy choices on your own behalf. Think of yourself as a small child that you have the responsibility to nurture, and protect. Be as gentle, forgiving and patient with yourself as you would a small child. This can help overcome set-backs and nay-sayers.

Understand the Law of Attraction – The law of attraction is based on a cosmic law: like attracts like. By thinking positive thoughts and keeping your goals in mind you can actually manifest these things in your life. For example, if a person opens an envelope expecting to see a bill, according to the law of attraction, the envelope would confirm those thoughts and would in fact contain a bill. Another person, using their own thoughts to utilize the law of attraction may decide to see a check, and under that same law find a check instead of a bill.

It is important to know what you want to achieve, so that you can keep these goals active in your life and bring what you want out of life, into your life through your own thoughts and actions. You can create your own destiny, and change your own reality based on your thoughts, feelings and goals. Give it a try! Start with something small like smiling at ten strangers for one day and see if there is not more light, and love in your life. If you can achieve one small goal, you can achieve many.

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The SkinnyMs. team believes that all people, regardless of age, size, and fitness level, have the power to transform their lives — they just need the resources to do so. The SkinnyMs. method promotes healthy living through a combination of clean eating and regular exercise. We offer everything you need to be successful.

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  1. I have been doing this for decades, and really believing it is possible. I honestly did believe… and kept on believing; I knew about the law of attraction and lived in a positve state of love and belief.

    But nothing ever happened. Decades of pain and hard luck continued. Im still stuck in a tough life, and now very ill, depressed and feel hopeless. No matter how postivie I am, and how much I work at things, life keeps on throwing hard rocks at me. Am I cursed?

    1. Anne, You DEFINITELY ARE NOT cursed! Here’s a few points to take with you:

      Personally, I had breast cancer, not once, but twice. The second time is what finally prompted me to
      change my lifestyle…forever! My healthy eating plan, working out, running, and meditating have
      truly been life changing. I believe my positive attitude and thoughts have made all the difference. 🙂

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